Saying so, it can be done and over with as I hope and desire everyone ending the healing process with a smile on, but only time can tell. The ways to cope best.is starting a day off with some sunshine, hopefully some good morning texts, and some interesting lectures to get through work and the rest of your day.Some know how boring those 900 a.m lectures can be.
During these past couple days, I've been in the middle, seemingly to have some issues with being the bigger person all of a sudden. Aspect on my relationships are unclear, as what they used to be a month ago with family. Thinking about what to do before you leave for the day boost your movement. Helping out with a temporary disabled person may alter a persons decisions for some time.
Being the middle girl is a set up. I know people also would catch themselves thinking the unheard, and knowing the unseen within subjects around them when dealing with more than they seem to be able to handle (the things that go through the mind). Say, what if after work I feel insanely tired; going here and there to do school work may help before hand.
Going to take an air break for example after everything around is complete , napping during the day, kind of messes up peoples sleep cycle. coming straight home after a long day makes alot of us lazy, moreless a chill time, unless you aren't a lazy person. Looking after the house isn't the worse part of having a disabled person in the house, having certain company around the house, my nieces perhaps, would be an exception, but it's when you must make sure every one eats.
Having but two arms can be stressful, after all multitasking isn't every ones specialty. Knowing that it may be a challenge, hopefully an older sibling who may hasn't their own to take care of, comes to the rescue and helps out a bit. a lAlthough I do believe we all can take it if it's given, it's simple to just go with the flow?
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ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your blog. I can completely relate to it. I hope everything goes well with the surgery. As a college student trying to balance 4 classes, a job, family, chores, and a social life seems a bit impossible. At least that's what I thought until I realized I could do it. It is crazy half the time. My planner (my agenda) seems to hold my life together. With so much going on at times I feel like I am going crazy. I wake up at 6 everyday, go to class , and work and get everything done some how I am awake after hours and hours of being on my feet. Your not the only one that feels overwhelmed!You are not alone! I enjoyed your blog have a wonderful night! :)
I agree with JMedina--I'm sending good thoughts your way so that your mother's surgery went well. Did it?
ReplyDeleteThis feels like another journal entry. Let's brainstorm how we can turn these thoughts into an academic blog on positive thinking and actions...